Every relationship needs trust and honesty. If you think that your relationship lacks trust and honesty, then maybe it's time to confront each other and make things clear between you two. Without trust and honesty, your relationship will surely lead to a never-ending fight.
What would you do when you find out that your wife for years is actually a man?
A man from Belgium who came by the name Jan has married his Indonesian wife, Monica, in 1993. However, after 19 years, Jan never expected to have the most shocking discovery in his lifetime.
“I feel I’ve been assaulted,” Jan said.
“I brought her to Belgium. That was not easy. The Belgian courts had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth and her identity papers, but eventually, they accepted it anyway. I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits,” he added.
The 64-year-old Jan stated that he and his 48-year-old wife decided not to have children because he already had two children from his previous marriage. He also added that he has been fooled since his wife uses sanitary towels for menstruation just so she could hide the truth.
"Even during sex, I never noticed anything,” he said.
Things between them started to fall apart when Monica had a full-time job. Monica was like a big sister to Jan's children. Their closeness led them to notice something weird about her.
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“Monica began to change very much,” Jan said.
“My oldest son saw her sometimes at a nightclub. She began to wear very flashy clothes, those ultra-short skirts or tiny tops, so her abdomen was completely exposed,” he added.
Finally, rumors about Monica started to spread and so Jan decided to confront her in a violent way, leading the police to their home.
“A friend told me that he had heard that Monica was actually a sex-changed man. I could not believe it. My son heard similar rumors,” he said.
“I pushed her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had been operated on. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed. That evening came to blows. The police came.”
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“That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed. Presumably, she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, who for years have lived with her, are devastated,” said his Liliane Verjauw, his lawyer.
Jan is now taking psychiatric treatments following his discovery. His marriage has then been annulled by the Belgian courts. After what had happened, the court has refused to allow him to return to their home.